How to build Self Confidence

Attracting a rich/wealthy man takes one crucial thing: confidence. Something about a woman who is confident and aware of her worth is one of the sexiest things men find about women they date. Confident women do not accept anything other than what they feel they deserve; to men, women like this are a challenge. That gets them excited because most men love a challenge. It's an ego booster for most men to get the girl they have been chasing for months. Here are the steps I took to become the very confident woman I am today, which has played a great deal in attracting the type of men I have been fortunate to date

1) Your surrounding

Understand that the people around you also significantly influence how you feel about yourself. If the people around you are not building you up and making you feel good about yourself, it is okay to surround yourself with people who do. When people around you compliment you and build you up, it's easy to start believing what they say. Everyone loves to be flattered or told they are beautiful.

2) Self Work/ mentally and Physically

Working on oneself is the best and most effective way to gain confidence. No one can make you feel good about yourself if you do not believe it yourself, no matter what they say and how many times they say it. Work on your physical appearance by changing things you don't deem beautiful about yourself (Safely) by going to the gym and getting some cosmetic work. Work on your mental by giving yourself praise. Find all the things you find beautiful about yourself, write them down, and read them to yourself every day until you start believing every word.

3) Fake it till you make it!!

If you find it challenging to do the work internally, I suggest you fake it. Fake it till it becomes natural. Do not let anyone see you down. The list below will help you look confident even if you aren't feeling confident inside.

*Seat up when sitting down ( make sure your back is straight)

*When walking into a room, strut slowly and swing your arms with your shoulder up and head straight.

*When shaking someone's hand, hold a tight grip and look them in the eye when introducing yourself.

*When having a conversation, be sure to keep eye contact and listen attentively.